Let’s resolve this amicably

This path is for two people who want structure, clarity, and reduced friction—without performing a war in public. It’s a process guide, not legal advice.

Principles (what makes this work)

• One topic at a time, in writing
• Concrete proposals, not grievances
• Time-boxed responses
• Document agreements immediately

A simple 4-step structure

1. Define the topic (one sentence)
2. State your proposal (specific, testable)
3. List constraints (work schedule, school, travel, finances)
4. Offer two alternatives (so the other person can say “yes” to something)

Template you can copy

Use this format to keep communication productive: